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Ephesians 6:10-12

The Armor of God!

Your eyes were drawn to this post,  you felt the vibrations from your spirit as it identified with this post. People more than ever in this time we need to wear the whole armor of God.  The verse translates in the NIV as:

10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood,but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

If you have a testimony or do you have a prayer request then put it down and pass it around so the next one can be touched.  God cares for each of you and is concerned about you and your situation.  Except the hand being extended to you right now.  Understand that your breakthrough, your change is at hand. However, you must accept it.  Be encouraged! Be encouraged!  For God promised that he would never leave nor forsake you.  

Deuteronomy 31:6

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Catching a Cheater With These 9 Signs

Going through something like this is emotionally draining and painful and all of the above.  But, the one good thing about the entire situation is that once it's over and you've had time to think and heal you will understand that you're better off without them anyway.  Why would you want to hold on to someone who doesn’t want to be held?  The tighter you try to hold on and the further away they pull. You would be doing yourself more harm than good.  Once you let go, focus you self!  You’re probably in a bad way as you totally neglected yourself for this loser. Take this time for self-reflection, understand your needs and by all means please don’t reflect on the situation and blame yourself.  I won’t say that you are blameless, but it’s definitely not all your fault and that’s ok. Be truthful and honest with yourself. Acknowledge that you have made some mistakes and learn from them.  The important take away here is to learn from your mistakes, don’t take all the blame and take all the time you need to heal.  That’s really important especially so when you want to get involved with someone else.  

Catching a Cheater With These 9 Signs

Submitted by: James Gaston

Do you think your partner is cheating on you? If so, he or she shouldn’t get away with it and there are signs that will be displayed that makes catching a cheater a rather easy act. You just have to know what to look for and look for them. This doesn’t mean you should become paranoid and think that the tiniest sign is an indicator that you are being cheated on, but, usually, more than one sign or definitive proof, at that, will determine whether or not you are truly being cheated on.

The following are 9 tips and signs to help you in catching a cheater so that you don’t have to put up with it if you don’t want to:

1. Know the cheating signs that include suddenly opening a post office box without saying a word, cigarette smoke smell when your partner doesn’t smoke, clothes smell of perfume or cologne, turns off cell phone when with you, and pieces of paper with phone numbers or addresses.

2. Check cellular phone bills and credit card bills. Cheaters usually leave a paper trail of some kind even if they believe they are being careful. If you suddenly find your partner making an effort to get the mail each day when that is not characteristic of him or her, then you know they are trying to hide something.

3. Computer usage changes, such as using the computer privately. Catching a cheater can be even easier if you know to look at chat histories. If histories with certain people are deleted and not deleted on others, then something is being hidden. You may also notice a loss of interest in sex or a change in sleep patterns, which is an indicator of cyber sex.

4. Look at tax returns and see if there are any unexplained travel expenses and review bank statements for unexplained debits. If you see an increase in ATM withdrawals when your significant other is more apt to use their debit card, then it is possible that there are some expenses he or she doesn’t want tracked.

5. Look at car mileage. If the mileage is much more than going to a certain friend’s house and back or to work and back, then that is an indicator that he or she is going elsewhere. If there is a denial of any side trips, then something is being hidden.

6. You will notice behavioral changes that include joining a gym or tanning salon, a sudden hairstyle change, buys new underwear, wears cologne or perfume more often, constant distraction or daydreaming, wants to know what you’re doing more often than usual, more frequent bathing, does own laundry, and buys new clothes.

7. Household chores and other responsibilities go ignored. If this time is replaced by Internet time or simply not being home, then this is an indicator something is wrong.

8. More work functions are being attended alone, your partner is frequently unavailable at work, comes home later than usual, and work hours are abnormal.

9. Your partner is suddenly being nicer to you and buying you more gifts. It has been known for years that a man buying a woman flowers for no reason is an indicator that he has done something wrong. A woman is more likely to buy her man a random gift than a man is for his woman.

While catching a cheater can be a painful situation to have to endure, it can be in one’s best interest to know that they are being cheated on. Not only is it a matter of the heart, but also a matter of health because catching a cheater could be the difference between contracting an STD and being healthy. Most of all, it gives you the opportunity to move on with your life and find someone who will treat you right or to work on the problems within your relationship in order to save it.

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Outstanding Women in Business by Tamar Peters

If we as women want to be successful in whatever it is you want to do, then you’ve got to find out how it is done. You don’t have to go recreate the wheel.  The hard parts been done for you already.  You just need to follow the track on how to get there because the roads have already been paved.  You may have to research certain ideas, peoples or places, but you take away the things that are relevant to you and your situation and apply them to your life. 

If you want to be successful, then surround yourself with successful people.  Query them at every opportunity and find out what they did and how. Understand their best practices.  You can go out and make connections of your own; network with business owners and partners.  If you tell them what you’re after you’d be pleasantly surprised that most would be happy to talk about what they have done and mistakes they have made etc…. You need to ask the questions to get the answers.

Everyone won’t welcome you with open arms.  Some people feel that they had to fight their way there, then so will you.  They won’t be your free ride, but that is ok. Move on to the next one because someone will recognize in you a spirit driven to succeed and realize that they were once in that very same place.

The most important this is to not give up on your dreams. The year is not over yet.  So get yourself back on the fast track to success.

Read the link below about women in business. Let this be the start of inspiration to propel you forward!

Outstanding Women in Business by Tamar Peters

Divine Connections

Divine Connections

Sistas,

A sista is just another woman, perhaps from a different part of the world, a different ethnic background or maybe you live just down the street from me.  It’s not important.  What is important is the fact that we as women all share something in common with one another.  We’re all Women! Therefore, we deal with a lot of the same issues and can relate to each other on a totally different level.  So, you don’t have to be African American to be a Sista. You could be an Indian American, Japanese American, Chinese American, Italian American, etc.  We know that we come in all shapes, sizes and colors.   We’re all Sistas and be sure you understand that it doesn’t matter how you look or what your language preference is. There shouldn’t be any barriers here because we all need one another on some plane.

Post your wares, here!

Sistas from all over the World come here and get connected on an individual level.  Here you will connect with the person who is divinely appointed to help you to the next level in whatever it is that you’re in need of.  Whatever you are in pursuit of; there is someone here who can help you get there. It’s just that basic.

Are you a small business owner or just someone in need of a service?  Well, you have arrived at the place to be extraordinarily connected to whomever it is that you need to get linked with.  I’d like to invite all of you who visit this blog to post your website link or blog link and tell all what it is you do.  What services you offer and a way to allow others to connect to you.   Come in and see how divinely you’re already connected to what you asked for days ago.  See, you didn’t realize your Father had already made a way.

Post your wares, here!

Are you looking for a fashion connection maybe you want to open a Boutique and you’re looking for that connection that can help you get the types of fashion you want to carry, but you’re not too sure on who you should be doing business with, a social connection, you just want a place to connect with likeminded sistas on the move and making things happen.  Perhaps you’re just getting started and need a mentor check this blog out!  There is someone to fill every need you have.  It’s just a matter of finding that right association.  It’s good to be around successful people who are making things happen in the world around us.  These are the Innovators, the Mavericks and the Visionaries. If that’s the crowd you want to hang around, then this is the place you ought to be.

As always I encourage you to post and please be respectful of others.

Thank you


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Volunteer, anyone!

 

Making a Difference from where you stand.

How many of us would like to volunteer but don't have the time or energy? 

 

Well, we've found a great site that allows you to volunteer when you want.  Isn't that great!  Best of all you can get involved and do the things that are relevant to you.  Volunteering is a "labor of love", the only reward you'll ever see is the happiness and hope you've instilled in another human being.  For some, that's more than enough. Think of it like a garden. It's wonderful when you plant your garden from seedlings and as time goes by you watch it and see it flowering into something useful; whether its a flower and we admire it for its beauty or a vegetable that we can eat and our bodies benefit from it. Watching it grow and become useful and relevant to you or someone else. 

That's the reward for your labor. Just knowing that you've touched another life and made a difference in it is worth the effort. The best part about it is that those seedlings grow up and go on to help others.  Truly, isn't that what it's about?

 

If you're like me, then volunteering has always been a thought in the back or your mind.  Something you really want to do, but just never had the time.  Volunteering is something that any of us can do provided we have the time, right? 

 

You can find something you're interested in doing and do it when you like.  They've got several different opportunities from Homelessness to Literacy pertaining to adults or children and teens. 

 

http://www.volunteerguide.org

 

 ........give a man a fish and he eats for a day; teach a man to fish and he'll eat for a lifetime

 

 

That should be our premise in volunteering and helping others in general.

 

 

Please be encouraged to check back often and share your thoughts on the matter.

Thank you for visiting.

My Best Friend

I do have one and we've been through some pretty tough times together.  We've laughed and cried together, traveled together hung out together. But, no matter how much time has passed between us and it doesn't matter how wise in age we get, I know in my heart that she is there for me as she knows I am for her.

Friends come and go.  You can even outgrow them sometimes, but best friends stay with you for life. And the funny thing is that you want them there. There are some things you just don't want to experience unless your best friend is there with you.